I Choose To Win

I Choose To Win is a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit organization that seeks to edify, empower and equip women and girls to win in life.

Mom and Me Cupcake and Tea: Thank You!

April 2018 – We would like to express our sincere appreciation to You’re Beautifully Made and GLC House of Hope for extending the invitation for Melonie Butler of I Choose To Win to be the guest speaker for the Mom and Me Cupcakes and Tea event held Sunday, April 8, 2018 at the Cliveden House in Philadelphia, PA. The event, attended by moms and children dolled up in hats and dresses from their respective organizations and the community-at-large, Butler shared a brief message for the young ladies to see themselves as bold, brave and brilliant young women capable of overcoming any of life’s challenges at even their age. She encouraged the young ones to model life being unapologetically themselves. Offering examples through storytelling of ways young ladies stray from their uniqueness to “fit in,” please other people, or avoid being labeled “weird” for their differences, Butler challenged the young ladies to stand straight up in those things that make them different. Additionally, she invited a mother and daughter bonding moment and activity where the young ladies shared with their mothers the attention, affection and affirmation in a bit of a role reversal. Children stood over their seated mothers, grabbed their cheeks, kissed their foreheads and recited “I need you, I love you, I thank you.” After a few tears shed – and laughter erupted to avoid crying, genuine moments spilled thereafter. Thank you Shanon Skipworth and Karen Jackson for inviting me. I loved every bit of it.

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April 21st Conference: I’m Ready To Choose

Fort Washington, PA — If you are ready to be the change agent in their own life – Join Us! If you are the game changer you’ve been waiting for – Join Us! It all begins with a choice. Then, it’s followed by action. Visit www.imreadytochoose.com. Sign Up. If the first quarter of the year has passed you by – and you’ve determined that’s the last quarter your dreams remain on the shelf. Join Us! A P R I L 2 1 ST 10 am – 5 pm (lunch provided)! Limited seating. Click here to reserve tickets.

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Empowered Uth: Coming Soon May – September 2018

Empowered Uth, a program brought by I Choose To Win and supported by Black Women Give, designed to reach Philly’s young women aged 13-18 to build confidence, improve self-esteem, upgrade self-narrative, plans to kick off May through September 2018. Applications open in April. To be the first to know more, please visit the program website: www.empoweredUth.com. The Empowered Uth program comprises a 2-day overnight retreat, biweekly meetups and action items, requiring active engagement of the young women in its program. COMING SOON MAY – SEPTEMBER 2018!  

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I’m Ready To Choose Conference – April 21st

Fort Washington, PA — I Choose To Win is hosting a one-day conference April 21, 2018 from 10 am – 5 pm featuring six speakers and several workshops for women who are ready to choose . . . to win! The conference will be held at the Holiday Inn Fort Washington. Here is a conference description: In 2018, we hope that you choose to WIN. It may require everything of you. But, if you are ready to uncover your issues, unveil your truth, unleash your gifts to unlock your God-given potential, JOIN US! This full-day conference will awaken you to possibilities again and ignite your passion to respond to your innermost yearnings with a vigorous “YES!” And we will help you establish the necessary action steps to support your decision to choose YOU. We know that you’re up for the challenge, so let’s get ready! Dynamic, proven and talented speakers, work session facilitators and strategic partners are at your disposal for ONE DAY to help bring your vision to light. Is this your year to realize the vision God has given you? Are you ready to fully engage life? Are you ready to learn what you’re made of? If you’re ready to win, it’s time to choose. To Learn More: Learn more about the conference by visiting the event website: www.imreadytochoose.com  

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Song Release: Listen and Download Now

February 2018 – Released at the I Choose To Win 3-year anniversary soiree is the original song written by Melonie Butler and performed by Shanae Tizon as part of the I Choose To Win’s Explore U songwriting and singing workshop. To listen, click here. If you are interested in exploring songwriting, recording and singing your own original lyrics, join us. Learn more by signing up for the next singing, recording and songwriting workshop at exploreUphilly.com.    

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Celebrating 3 Years! Cheers to New Beginnings

February 25, 2018 — Philadelphia, PA — Stratus Rooftop Lounge hosted I Choose To Win’s 3-year anniversary soiree, “Cheers to 3 Years,” on Thursday evening, February 22, 2018 as part of its 12 weeks of giving campaign. While guests joined together to celebrate this 3-year milestone, the event turned into an additional celebration as it was announced at the event that I Choose To Win had been named the inaugural grant recipient of the newly formed philanthropic organization, The Black Women Give Foundation (BWG). BWGive Board of Directors arrived to formally announce its decision to partially fund I Choose To Win’s 2018 Empowered Uth program through a generous $5,000 grant toward its launch and implementation. Empowered Uth is an initiative that seeks to empower the voices, ideas and thought-leadership of Philly’s young ladies in the areas of their gifts to realize their potential. “This generous gift enables us to reach these young ladies with a new narrative about themselves, a refreshed perspective about their purpose, power and potential,” exclaimed Melonie Butler, founder, I Choose to Win. “We aspire to teach vision board planning, activate use of their imagination, assess self-love and acceptance, evaluate love for others, explore gifts, strengths and talents, offer them a platform to be heard, have them define for themselves what a winning life looks like and support at least one action item toward embarking upon it.” In the exclusive private room, men and women, invited guests, supporters, donors and volunteers poured into the space in honor of the three-year impact I Choose To Win has had edifying, empowering and equipping women to win in life. To aid in celebration were Philly-based musicians, Christian and Shanae Tizon, of the band Beat Peace. Accompanying them was the captivating dancer, Kinese, providing a visual response to the melodic sounds. Additionally, there was a debut of an original song, Visions of Me, written and performed by Butler and songstress Tizon. To listen, click here. For a visual recap, check out the photos here. About Empowered Uth: Empowered Uth is a 2018 program soon-to-be offered by I Choose To Win that seeks to empower the voices, ideas and thought-leadership of young ladies in the areas of their gifts (strengths, talents, passion). Reaching no more than 20 Philadelphia-area and Montgomery County-based young ladies, we plan to teach vision board planning, activate use of their imagination, assess self-love and acceptance, evaluate love for others, explore gifts, strengths and talents, define for themselves what a winning life looks like and support at least one action item toward embarking upon it. To sign up for our newsletter and learn more details about this program, click here. About I Choose To Win: I Choose To Win is a Philadelphia-area based 501 (c)(3) motivational and inspirational nonprofit organization that seeks to edify, empower and equip women on their journey to live a life of winning (aka boldly, bravely and brilliantly unleashing their God-given gifts to impact the world). Comprised of programming, workshops, messaging and publications, I Choose To Win encourages women to lead bold, brave and brilliant lives, where they are awakened to their purpose, pursuing their passions, embracing their personal power and unlocking their potential. We showcase, highlight and promote positive images and stories of women who are winning. Find out more by clicking here. About BWGive: The Black Women Give Foundation (BWG) is a 501(c)(3) Public Charity that seeks to engage and inspire African American women and girls in philanthropy by collectively funding impactful grants for organizations working to foster positive and sustainable change within underrepresented communities of color. We are called to action to uplift communities of color through the collective giving by our members. Learn more.

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Introducing . . . IChooseToWin.TV

January 2018 — We are pleased to announce the beginning phases of development for the new video magazine we plan to launch in place of our print magazine, entitled ichoosetowin.tv. This online, video magazine will feature and showcase women who winning in life. It will tell the backstory of their decision-making and stories of overcoming as a means of encouragement and inspiration for those women who are on similar journeys. Continue to follow us and learn more by visiting ichoosetowin.tv. We are excited to transition to a new medium in sharing our messages that continue to carryout our mission, which is to edify, empower and equip women to win in life. Additionally, you will get visual glimpses of our program through recap videos displayed. Stay tuned. If you would love to volunteer your time, professional services and skills to help push this project to new heights, please contact Melonie@ichoosetowin.org. We will be looking for guest hosts, correspondences and interviewers. And, we will be seeking video editing professionals interested in supporting our efforts on a volunteer basis.  

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Bold Intentions: Ready, Set . . . Let’s Get it 2018!

January 20, 2018 – Philadelphia, PA – Women elected to gather and publicly proclaim a bold intention for the year at I Choose To Win’s 2018 Bold Intentions Conversation this past Saturday, January 20th at D-Hive. It was a pleasure to spend an afternoon in a meaningful way connecting people on mission to live a more authentic, engaged life. One-by-one, we each walked up to the podium with some measure of truth on our tongue about what we wanted to share, and we did just that. Without trying, it seemed as though the personal intentions we individually brought could be wrapped into a theme of “Authenticity!” Believing in ourselves, loving ourselves well, getting out of our own way, fully engaging life, cherishing the creation we are, honoring the truth of our stories, savoring present moments, and genuinely celebrating others. Not to mention the more tangible intentions to start a business and write a book. These are beautiful possibilities for all of us if we are, as we’ve collectively discussed, intentional about guarding and protecting our minds and hearts from limiting beliefs and negative thinking, which we expounded upon in great detail. Click here for pictures. Join us next year. Or, for our next event. 

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Cheers to 3 Years: Join Us 2/22 for Happy Hour

Men and Women are extended this invitation to join us and raise our glasses “Cheers to 3 Years!” Register Now Join us as we celebrate our 3-year anniversary soiree at Stratus Rooftop Lounge. We will celebrate three years of service edifying, empowering and equipping women to win in life. Let’s dance and raise our glasses to striving, grinding, trusting, believing and making things happen in 2018. For all women overcoming obstacles and realizing their greatness by living their purpose, pursuing their passions and unlocking their potential – C H E E R S! We hope you join us. This is a ticketed, fundraiser event. No refunds. This is not a women only event. This is also for the men who support these women. Fellas, see you there. Admission includes ONE raffle ticket. Raffle Prizes include: Movie Passes (2), Gift Cards, Overnight getaways and more. A percentage of Stratus Rooftop sales benefit I Choose To Win. Register Now

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